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Why I Built fathr.io: A Personal Journey

How growing up without a father's guidance led to creating a platform that helps dads maintain meaningful connections with their children.

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The Missing Words

I never heard my father's voice. Never received a birthday card, or got advice about life's big moments. As a Technical Lead in the software industry, I've built systems that connect millions - yet the most important connection in my life was missing.

This void shaped my understanding of how crucial a father's words are to a child's life. It's what drove me to create fathr.io.

Why fathr.io Exists

Today's world often keeps fathers apart from their children - whether through work, separation, or other circumstances. But distance shouldn't mean disconnection. fathr.io provides a secure, meaningful way for fathers to:

  • Create lasting oaths and promises
  • Schedule messages for important milestones
  • Share wisdom and guidance
  • Build a digital legacy of love

Why We Charge

As someone who would have given anything for a message from my father, I wanted fathr.io to be accessible to everyone. That's why we offer a free tier that includes the essential features for maintaining connection.

However, preserving memories forever requires robust infrastructure:

  • Secure, redundant storage systems
  • Regular backups and maintenance
  • Encrypted transmission of personal content
  • Ongoing platform development

Our paid tiers help support these costs while providing enhanced features for fathers who want to create even richer connections with their children.

Looking Forward

Every feature we build, every improvement we make, is driven by a simple question: "What would I have wanted to hear from my father?" This personal mission ensures that fathr.io remains focused on what truly matters - helping fathers create lasting bonds with their children.

Whether you're a father looking to strengthen your connection with your children, or someone who understands the importance of preserving parental wisdom, I invite you to join us in this mission.